We think we have life under control. We make plans. We set goals. But sometimes, more times than we’d like, life throws us for a loop.
Typically, these “loops” are not pleasant. Plans fall apart, goals become unrealistic. Sometimes it comes in the form of a call in the middle of the night, telling you a loved one is sick or has died.
I thought I had prepared myself for this eventuality. My folks are aging and they live almost 1,000 miles from me. My only sibling lives in South America. So if our parents need help, I’m the one they call—and that middle-of-the-night call came several days ago.
I immediately set aside my plans and goals, contacted my sister, and hopped a plane to attend to my parents. Sounds easy, yes?
Well, it wasn’t easy, but it was doable. Especially since my sister was able to hop a plane and join me.
But some of life’s loops aren’t so “easy.” Yet most times we can’t avoid them. Some we endure; others we deal with, kicking and screaming the whole way.
My husband and children have supported me through this current loop. My sister’s family has helped her, too. And we sisters lean on and buoy each other. But most important of all, our Lord gives us the grace, strength, and wisdom to walk through the loops that threaten to strangle us and steal our joy.
I count on Him to take me through these difficult times, and He’s always faithful. Though I may encounter sadness and grief, He will never leave my side. He knows firsthand the pains and sorrows of life’s loops; therefore, He is ever-present to take my hand and walk alongside me—even carry me.
What has life thrown your way? How has Jesus comforted you?